Conflict resolution

Had a bit of an embarassing moment yesterday ;) Aino was at my place. I went to get the car to take her home and she was left alone in my apartment for a while. She took my digital camera and looked at the pictures, finding Helga fingering her asshole. I had downloaded the pictures on to my computer, but I hadn't deleted them from the camera yet.

When she came into the car she told me what she had seen. I told her that she shouldn't have been looking at my camera, that it is private. I was pissed off, she was calm. Funny how the whole situation was turned a bit upside down. I drove like a madman, but I couldn't help finding some comedy in the situation.

"So I'm suppose to apologize for looking at your camera?" she asked.
-"You invaded my privacy. Yes, you should."
"Well, I'm sorry" she said with sarcasm in her voice. And after that we didn't talk for a while. I thought that this is the last time I'll be seeing her.

"Let's talk now, face to face, if there is something to say." I said and after a while she started asking question concerning the pictures and the amount of girls I'm seeing and the sort. To almost all of them I replied "None of your business", since it isn't. I clarified to her once again that we are not dating and that means she doesn't own me. She said she knew that, but told me how serious she is about me. She'd want to date me, but I want to stay single. She cried.

What took off the edge was that she told me she'd also had sex with another guy the day before. So how can she be pissed at me if she's been doing the same thing? Well, it was just this one guy and because she thought yesterday that things aren't going to work out for us anyway. LOL ;) Well, anyway, I was back on top of things ;)

I went in for a cup of coffee, we talked some more, and I kept telling her that I don't want to date and I don't want to make promises. She said she wants me to be her's. We kissed a few times. She's going away for a few weeks, back to her parents place again, and she told me that if I miss her I'm going to have to tell her that immediately. I promised I would and left.

Right after I closed the door I wrote her an SMS that said I missed her a lot and was in need of a hug. I could hear her phone beep through the door and she giggled a bit when she read the message. I rang the door bell and hugged her when she opened the door. Then I left, for real. When I got to the car, she'd sent me a message saying "you're absolutely lovely" ;) I giggled to myself all the way home ;)

What an unbelievable evening. First she sees porn pictures I've taken of another girl and in the end she's telling me how lovely I am. Now talk about conflict resolution ;)