Girls
Take a look at this girl. She takes my breath away. Unbelievable.
It was not long ago that I talked with a friend about the models of today. I told him that it's so wrong to print pictures of unbelievable women when they really aren't that perfect in real life. What you can't fix with make-up, you can with Photoshop. All the wrinkles, all the skin problems, all the sellulite, all gone. "The flawless women seen in the pictures just don't really exist", I said. To which my friend replied: "Yeah, you'd think so, until you see one walking casually down the street"
It's true. Those perfect looking girls do exist. At least once a week when walking around in Helsinki, or some other place with lots of people, my jaw drops and I can't help but just stare at the beauty of a girl. I'm simply amazed and awe-struck at how someone can look so awesome.
Unfortunately so far I haven't met a girl who is unbelievably beautiful and still interesting to talk to. In most cases, beauty and stupidity walk hand in hand. I'm not a man who finishes second. I want the perfect girl, in all aspects. I won't settle for less. Sometimes it just seems like such an impossible mission. And then when you happen to meet a girl who seems nice and looks good, she's taken.
It's a cruel world.
posted by Farewell @ 11:36 AM
6 comments
6 Comments:
Are you in the same league in SMV (Sexual Market Value) as these dreamgirls of yours? As men are notoriously easy to pick up, those kind of women can get (almost) anyone they want, so why you?
of course brains and beauty can be combined. or can anyone show statisctics to prove my point wrong?
of course that combination is rather rare. most people look averidge and have an iq around 100.
if somebody is just plain dum, why don't you guys try saing, "shut up and sleep with me"?
Sure brains and beauty can coexist, but having large amounts of both is exceedingly rare. How many stunning female PhDs (=demonstrably brainy) do you know?
If one wants to hit the top one percent in both brains and beauty, roughly 1/10000 of women will do. Add agreeable/interesting character to the mix and your choices are even fewer...and how many of them are the right age?
To anonymous no 1:
Hard for me to judge my own SMV. I think I am in the same league, but I guess every guy does ;)
I've never had difficult getting girls and I almost always get the ones I want. I just don't seem to find anyone worthy of anything more than just casual sex and frienship.
Why would the girls choose me? There's a lot of stuff that makes me stick out of the common mass in a positive way, but I don't want to go too much into detail since that would endanger my anonymity. Sorry.
To assshole:
Nice to hear from you =)
Yeah, beautiful and smart girls do exists but as you said they are rare and the rare few that do exist are already taken. I haven't come across anyone matching my standards for a girlfriend since I last broke up. Even my ex-girlfriends wouldn't match the standards I have today.
I do say "shut up and sleep with me" to the dumb ones. Most of the text on this blog is about that ;)
To anonymous no 2:
Are you trying to get me to quit looking? ;) It's depressing how few perfect girls there are in this world.
I wish I was gay, at least then I'd have twice as much people to choose from ;)
The "perfect girl" thing is a myth, no such person exists. Some people can be near perfect for a passionate fling, but not necessarily the kind of people who you could envision staying a decade or more with. And vice versa. It's impossible to have it all, there are always trade-offs. In the best of all possible worlds you would have a great wife/longtime girlfriend, and a passionate mistress, or several :-)
Somehow it seems that most of your criteria are sexyness-related, so it sounds like you dick is doing the thinking. There's nothing wrong with that, but you probably know that's not a lasting base for a relationship. Can't you tell what else you desire your dreamgirl to be, something about her desired background, character, occupation, future plans etc.?
There has to be a perfect girl for me. I've met a few who have come close so why wouldn't there be a girl who is all that? There's millions of girls in the worlds =) And I'm having fun looking so no hassle :D
Yeah, I mostly talk about sex-related issues on the blog but I do want my girlfriend to be a lot more. It's just that those things are a lot harder to define. Her background, occupation or the sort doesn't matter.
I just want someone who is fun to be with, who keeps on suprising me even when we've know each other for years, understands my humor (this is where most fail;), is true without exception... and likes it up the ass ;)
I should probably write an entry about this topic. It's just that it's definately not an easy topic. I've tried it on paper a few times and there's a lot that's just very difficult to put in to words. But maybe I'll try since it seems that all the readers don't just want to read stories about the sex I have =)
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