New acquaintance
Last week a new acquaintance slept over at my place almost every night. She's quite a hottie and gives great blowjobs. She never neglects the balls, but actually gives them a lot of attention, which I love. Also she has this adorable habit of stuffing my cock as deep in her mouth as is it goes and then holding it there for a while. It doesn't exactly feel that special, but still it's somehow very sexy.
We're not dating or anything. I think we're both in it just for the sex since neither of us have so far wanted to define our relationship. Normally she comes over to my place late in the evening, we fuck and then go to bed. She's not far from the girlfriend type, but still not there. She's too shy socially and she doesn't do sports, which means she'll be fat in 5 years.
And naturally, no problems with my erections. Hard as a rock, each and every time. Of course this has led me to analyze Lisa a bit more and I think I've identified one more thing that really affects my sexual ability. You see, I'm a very visual person. Probably because I've been watching porn since I was 11 or something. I love seeing things and staring and Lisa never lets me do that. She's always hiding herself, pulling her legs together and trying to cover herself with a blanket. Either that or then she makes sure that the room is completely dark. Doesn't work for me.
posted by Farewell @ 9:11 PM
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Your problem with Lisa is that she doesn't give into your control and you'r so used to being in control that it makes you unsecure (the one and only reason for erection problems). Probably also the feature that fascinates you..
Though yea, i have to say that sex i best for both (and especially for woman) when man is in control.
It's sexist (not to mention narrow minded) bullshit to say that sex is best when the man is in control. Give me a break!
I'm not saying that man has to take the control (like a person whose only sex education is porn movies) but the opposite: man has to earn the woman trust to let him be in control. Sex is a process where mans aim is to maximize womans pleasure (so that she will want to have sex again) and all i'm saying is that if woman is in charge of that process it's a fairly sure sign that the man doesn't really know what he's doing (or that the woman is too controlling to give in) and it most likely is not going to end in a screaming orgasm.
I'm all for equality between sexes, but based on my experience sex just is one of those primal things where women enjoy most when being able to fully submit and trust the man and man enjoy most when he's ability to lead is supported by womans consent.
Woman being in control can definetely end up in a screaming orgasm for the man. Some fantastic women are actually equally interested and turned on by the man's pleasure as the man is in hers. Besides, women should hold on and seek to please fantastic lovers so that they will stay interested only in them.
It's ok that the man is usually in control and the woman submits, but if the couple in sexually liberated the reversed roles work equally well every once in awhile. Of course this might be too much for some men or women to handle, but it's their loss :-)
Could you advise me cos i think i give pretty great blowjobs but i do neglect the balls. What's the needed attention: rubbing, licking or taking them in to my mouth? Please help :D
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rude honesty:
I don't agree with you. I've had vanilla sex with several girls and without any erection problems.
I think it's more about the fact that she's so shy and I'm visual.
I also don't agree with our second point, it's just not that straightforward ;)
last anonymous:
You need to rub, lick and take his balls in your mouth ;) All of it feels very good. It's hard to go wrong as long as you're gentle.
Start off by licking his balls first. Don't go straight to the shaft. Guys like to be teased just like girls. When you do have his cock in your mouth, rub his balls at the same time.
Squeezing hurts in a bad way. Don't squeeze the balls. I don't think I've ever had a girl who did that, but I've heard horror stories. Don't do it.
It's great that you ask =) You have all it takes to make your boyfriend happy ;)
maya:
I'm not quite sure if this is an honor or not based on the short description of wrote of my blog ;) Anyway, thanks :D
I agree with rude honesty, especially with the second point. A man that takes control really turns me on. And I've been complimented for being a great fuck many times, guys always want to fuck me more than once. But different things work for different people of course.
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