Quiet weekend

Hope you're all having a great weekend. I am. I've been occupied by hobbies from right after work on Friday and will be for pretty much the entire weekend. Every once and a while it's nice to have a weekend full of sports instead of booze. Unfortunately, however, this does slow down things on the sexual front. For example, I know that Lisa was out yesterday and had I been with her I would've had a good chance of going home with her.

We've only met once for coffee during a working day after the night we spent together. I can't figure her out. We talk on the phone a lot, but finding time to meet up seems impossible. She's a busy girl and I'm a busy guy, but there's more to it. My personal guess is that she knows I'm a bit of a player and she's trying to make things hard for me. Well, if that's what it's about, I deserve it.

I'm taking her out next week though. We'll see how it works out. Wish me luck.

I already know I'm going to be really busy the next two weekends too, but hopefully after that I'll be able to invest more time on finding some new pussy (and ass, of course). It's a pity I lost all my fuck buddies when I started dating Jenni. At times like these they're a man's best asset.

Lisa

Tonight is special. I'm gonna stay home, watch a movie and go to sleep early. A great way to spend a Friday evening. I wouldn't even want anyone to be here with me. It's just great to be alone every once and a while.

Things with Lisa haven't progressed, unfortunately. She works long hours and when she gets off she's exhausted and doesn't want to meet up. I've had my doubts about her since I'd definitely squeeze in some time for her no matter how exhausted I was, but then again, you know me, I'm always running a tight schedule.

A few times I've stopped calling and sending her messages, just to make sure it's this isn't one-sided. Happily, it's not. If I'm not in contact with her for a day, she'll call me in the morning.

We still talk on the phone for ages. I don't know how we still find so much stuff to talk about. Though mostly it's me telling disgusting jokes or weird stories from drunken adventures. And she laughs at me. But in a good way!

This weekend she's out of town. That's, of course, also one of the reasons that I happen to have a Friday for myself. And now that I think of it, when I said I wouldn't want anyone here, I lied.

I also met a girl through the Internet on Wednesday. She's been sort-of coming on to me for a while, but I've been patting her down because of Jenni. Well, no reason to do that anymore. We had beers in the city center, I brought her over to my place and we fucked.

She wasn't ugly, but not a model either. The kind of girl that nerds think of as a great catch. Looks very good in dark lighting and from across the dance floor.

Masturbation would've been more pleasing than the sex we had. There were two things worth writing about. First of all, she didn't neglect the balls. She started her blowjob by simply sucking and licking them for a while. That was great! Girls, take a hint! My enthusiasm, however, died shortly when she took my cock in her mouth and sucked on it, literally. Not very pleasant.

The other thing was that she was on her period. Naturally I thought that in that case it's better I fuck her up the ass. I smacked her ass, grabbed her hair and started fingering her anus. When I thought it was about time to enter I asked whether she's been tested for STD's lately. She was healthy, but of course understood what I was about to do and stopped me. Her excuse was that my cock is too big for her ass. She was probably lying, but I liked it.

I had to settle with boring vaginal intercourse with a towel under her. Her period was almost over so she didn't bleed at all. Had I fucked her up the ass and only in the ass, she would've been special, but now she was plain and vanilla. I'm probably never going to see her again.

Second night with Lisa

Again I spent a night at Lisa's place. We spent our evening separate, but when I was going to head home from the city centre at about midnight I sent her a message asking if she'd have me over for a cup of tea. She'd been giving me such mixed signals that I honestly wasn't planning on making any moves on her. I was really going for some tea and conversation.

Well, we talked for two hours or so. We get along great. She keeps saying that she loves to just listen to my voice, no matter what I say. How cute. Good for her I talk a lot.

We started watching a movie and it got so late that we agreed it's better I sleep over. After that we pretty much picked up where we left off last time. Kissing, caressing and gentle foreplay. It was awesome. I love her scent.

We fooled around for about an hour or so and she still kept my hands away from her pubic area. It was starting to get a bit frustrating already no matter how fun the kissing was. I wanted to see and feel her pussy, so smilingly I told her she's a tease. She thought about it for the duration of a few kisses and then asked me "Do you want to feel how wet I am?". I bet there' not a lot of times when a man has said no to such a question. And my god she was wet.

I circled my finger around her soaked clit and then slowly inserted it. I fingered her only for about half a minute when she started panting and squirming rather intensily. I'm not sure, but I think she already came once then. That was damn quick if she did.

After some kissing and cuddling I tried going between her legs with my tongue, but she pulled me up. She seemed shying since I knew she wanted it. I whispered into her ear that I want to lick her. She still hesitated, but let me move her panties aside and start licking her. A few minutes later she was fine. I guess she concentrated on enjoying the experience.

I pulled off her panties. We didn't have the lights on so unfortunately I didn't get a very good look at her pussy. Anyway, I licked and fingered her to an orgasm. She came very hard. The (second?) orgasm came with such vigor that she probably woke up the neighbors with her moaning and her convulsions seemed to last forever. After that she was all smiles for the rest of the night. Actually it was more like morning.

We continued kissing and cuddling and I was hoping for some cock sucking. I didn't say anything and I didn't motion her head towards my cock or anything like that. (Guys, don't do that, that's just plain stupid.) It seemed that it's not going to happen and I was damn horny so I decided to just sink my cock in her pussy. This is when we ran it to trouble.

I really wasn't planning on going over there and fucking her so I didn't have any condoms with me. She didn't have any available at her apartment either. That sucked in a way completely different from cock sucking. I was ripe to go out and get some condoms, I wanted to fuck her so bad, but she didn't want me to go.

So we kept playing around. Fingering, kissing, caressing. Still she didn't go down on me. Did she have an issue with blowjobs or didn't the thought even cross her mind or what the hell was going on? Well, I whispered "blow me" into her ear and that fixed the situation. She moved down and started sucking my cock.

She performed rather well actually. She used a lot of saliva, which made sure that no matter how hard she stroked it didn't feel a teasy bit uncomfortable. However the drawback is that it also curbs the pleasant feelings. All in all, however, it was very good.

I asked if I can cum her mouth, but she shook her head. That's a minus, but I'll get her over it. I mean come on, who wouldn't want so swallow my cum?

I didn't sleep too well since I wasn't relieved of my pressure down there. I didn't mind, though it was a bit odd. I'd never want to let a girl sleep without making her cum if I'd got her wet. It's just impolite. So I suppose she was being impolite. But the whole night was so great all in all that I let it pass.

We still talked for a while and she told me she wants to fuck me as soon as possible, but feels a bit weird due to our age difference. I don't think I've even mentioned it, but she's almost ten years older than me. It was fun to notice that she was so inexperienced. Though it also may be just shyness since she admitted that she hasn't had sex for quite a while. That also probably explains why she came so easy for the first time.

I'm not sure when I'll have the chance to see her, but damn I'm hoping it's soon. I can't get her out of my mind. Hopefully jerking off will help at least a bit. Time for some anal porn. These last lines were written with my cock out ;)

Getting started with single life

My single life got off to a pretty good start. I didn't get laid yet, but I did spend last night at the receptionist's apartment. From now on I'll call her Lisa.

I forgot to tell a somewhat important detail in my previous post, about my 1st of May celebration. As you all know, I was still dating then, but already feeling quite uncertain about the whole thing. Lisa happened to call me when I was at a private party and I promised to get her and her friends in too. That means Jenni and Lisa were at the same party and I had to keep them separate without either of them noticing me spending too much time with the other.

I managed to pull it off nicely. A few days later me and Jenni broke up and I called up Lisa to ask her out. She asked what my girlfriend would think about it. She'd seen me earlier in the city with Jenni, she'd seen Jenni at the party and she'd seen us together at Ullanlinnanmäki on the 1st of May. Her question caught me off guard since I thought she didn't know I was dating. I hesitated for a second, but then simply told her that I don't have a girlfriend, which was of course true at that moment. Fortunately, she didn't ask anything more.

We talked on the phone on the weekend quite a lot, but our schedules simply didn't have an open spot at the same time so we couldn't meet up. Yesterday I sent her a message saying I'm coming over to her place to spend the night. It was a bold move and she did hesitate a while, but then welcomed me.

The night was great. Didn't sleep nearly enough, but I don't mind, I had so much fun. As I said, no sex, but a lot of eroticism. We kissed, cuddled, groped and pretty much imitated fucking with our underwear on. When I tried to go further, she kindly directed me elsewhere. A lot more pleasant than a plain "No". Girls, you've got a lot to learn from her.

Playing a good girl was also smart move. After last night I just can get her out of my head. She turned the situation upside down. Yesterday I was the one calling the shots, today it's the other way around. I want to see her as soon as possible, but she decides when that happens. I just try not to get too excited so I don't push it too much.

Our erotic games were very promising. She moaned the most when I was rubbing my cock against her ass and pulling her hair. Her pussy was nicely trimmed, though I didn't get to see it quite yet. I can't wait to get at it.

Jenni and I agreed that we'll be friends. First off she said she wants to steer clear of me for a while, but I guess a few days was enough. Anyway, that's great news. I do love spending time with her. And who knows, maybe she's the kind of friend who does ATM. If it so happens, I have to say I couldn't be better off.

Singularity

It so happens that I'm single again. Not quite sure what to think of it yet, my emotions are pretty mixed up. On the other hand I care for Jenni a lot, but as I said in my last post I also miss my single life. I just hope I'm not making a big mistake.

The crucial blow was when we discussed sex. It's unbelievable how different our views were when spoken out. She said she has hardly any sex drive and that she's very shy in such matters. She likes sex, but only feels horny when she's got a hangover. I don't know how we got this far without it being a bigger problem. I suppose I just took lead and enjoyed my ATM.

You all know I love sex. Possibly even too much. Her view was that sex will slowly die down during a relationship and that it's normal. It may be that it's common, but no way in hell am I going to stomach it. I want to have sex as long as I can keep it up. (And thank you science for Viagra.)

But I have to say, it would've probably been one more month or so and I would've told her I love her. I probably do. I really enjoy being with her and we get along perfectly. A lot our friends said we're the perfect couple. That's what makes me uncertain. What if I'm making a huge mistake. What if, after a month, I'll be fed up with single life and I just miss her.

Of course there were other issues involved in the decision, but is it stupid that the biggest thing was sex? After all, it's just sex.

Well, I try not to think of these things too much. Hopefully, having sex with someone else will help me clear out my thoughts, one way or the other. The receptionist girl is pretty ripe for collecting after just a few text messages and one long phone call.